This title seems daunting. Maybe too daunting? When I look back at 25-year-old Juliann my purpose was to be a Psychologist. To share knowledge, and enthusiasm about the field with others. I wasn’t quite sure what that would look like.
In my 30’s my purpose took on the shape of 5 little kids. My purpose every day was to be a good Mom and to be a good wife. That might not be a popular opinion, but it’s true. Other parts of my life took a back seat as I focused my energy on my family and our faith.
Finishing my dissertation while holding my 5th baby.
In my 40’s I experienced what can only be described as upheaval. This wasn’t a bump in the road: life-threatening illnesses, job upheavals and disappointments, family diagnoses, and grief at home. What was my purpose? Was it to concentrate on being a mom or did I go back to being an enthusiastic Psychologist? This was a painful time.
I’m in my (ahem) late 40’s, and I realize that the key for me is Enthusiasm. I was enthusiastic about my first love of Psychology. Ask anyone… I loved being in the classroom and lab with my students. Then I shifted gears, or maybe added in my enthusiasm for Motherhood. And now, I’m enthusiastic about online learning for everyone. I can find purpose in many things; things I value, and care about, things that are important or lasting. It doesn’t just have to be ONE THING!
My purpose is to find what I’m passionate about, what makes me excited and enthused, and pursue it. I tell my kids that it is our job to figure out our gifts, whatever they are, and use them. For me, sometimes that is full steam ahead on being a wife and mother. Other times it’s pulling out that Psychology degree and sharing my knowledge. And many days it is designing courses and training for all learners, regardless of goals or abilities.
I am blessed that I can chase what I am enthusiastic about, and I can make a living doing so. What is your purpose? What makes you get up every day?
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